love yourself today and tomorrow

I was speaking with a friend today who has a bully. I told her the more attention you pay to an evil person, the more they will take it. Because a bully will have any attention for all the wrong reasons. They want a reaction. They are unhappy people who try very hard to be something they know they can never be.

As soon as you get on with your life your bully will find someone new to target. Life is too short to put up with hate. It really does worry me so many people feel persecuted and most of them are vulnerable in one way or another. How can anyone who constantly scores points of another feel good about themselves? We have to remember not everyone is ‘nice’ and that is a hard pill to swallow for genuinely good people. Stay where there is love. It is much easier to find than hate. And always remember it is better to be kind. Kindness is the greatest strength of all because kindness is love.

I am getting ready to go out for supper but wanted to write this for all the people who may feel helpless. I have been there. I thought life was unbearable. What good is that to my sons who need their mum.

Christmas is hard because everything seems so lovely and perfect around us. But it is not. Christmas can be very cruel to those suffering hardship. Doing a bit of volunteer work around this time of year is real soul food. Plenty of local causes need us today!

I remember last Valentines day when I used Twitter. I tweeted every person that I cared about to say Happy Valentine because it costs nothing to share goodwill. I was attacked for it by a very dark energy. Never let anything stop you from spreading love. You are love. We are love. Love is Everything! When I look back I believe social media took a huge chunk of my life and I am glad I am free. It is lovely just having a little blog to share things as we go along. Set yourself free and join in with the good people. Less is More.


Belleva LTD is a registered company 11636093 to the address 30 St Chads Road  Blackpool United Kingdom FY1 6BP. Belleva is also a registered trademark and all content here is our own original material. Belleva is protected by laws of copyright.

© 2023 by Belleva House ™

Belleva House Blackpool

Home. Heart. Hotel.

Useful links:

Blackpool Heritage Tram Tours

Premier Taxis (100% electric cars)

Viva Blackpool

Blackpool Zoo

Funny Girls

Hogarths Gin Bar

The Eating Inn (South Shore) 

The Stone Grill (15 minute drive or tram)

The Royal Carlton Hotel

(late drinks around the corner with sea view)

Dirty Blondes (bar and pizza)

Winter Gardens ( theatre, great afternoon tea)

St John's Church (set in beautiful square in town)

Michael Wans Mandarin (family run)

Blackpool Comedy Club 

Amazing Graze

(delicious stone baked pizza take away, all proceeds support the very vulnerable it is around the corner of Belleva on Talbot Street you will be made welcome)

South Shore Soap Co hand made and hand poured soap and wax melts made with love in Blackpool. Dispatch UK.

  • Instagram

Belleva House is a boutique villa hotel located on St Chads Road Blackpool. 7 individually designed, elegant 'double' bedrooms - ideal for that peaceful, romantic getaway to a quirky, nostalgic seaside town. Each bedroom has a private bathroom or en-suite shower room. Your chosen room comes with a hamper of treats to enjoy during your stay - along with hot drinks, water, mints, fresh towels, eco toiletries, bath robes and most rooms have a mini fridge. Plus super fast inclusive WIFI, flat screen smart TV, movie channels and Alexa! Three of our luxurious bathrooms also have (bathroom friendly) wall mounted flat screen smart TV. There is a communal chill out lounge with free tea and coffee, magazines and books plus art and crafts for sale and a 'hot pot' of the day. All bookings are inclusive of a Mediterranean style breakfast.